5 Photography Prompts that will Amp Up the Romance

Photography prompts help turn nervous clients into picture-perfect superstars. Use these FREE prompts to ramp up the romance for your next couple!

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Capturing the first moments of being married with a camera is a treasured part of every wedding. As the photographer, it’s often where your finest creative work is expected. However, it’s also where you encounter the most time slippage: preparation runs over, the ceremony starts late, the formals take longer to wrangle. Sunset doesn’t shift with the schedule, and you still need to deliver portfolio-quality images in your signature style—all while providing a stellar experience for your clients.

When the clock is ticking, it’s easy to get frazzled. All those images and ideas you pinned: gone. You’re left in mannequin mode, posing your clients like dolls for the camera. You end the romantic session frustrated, questioning whether you’ve captured the couple in their best light.

Sound familiar? It does to me. I’ve been there, and it’s why I started using ones in my photography. I wanted to feel confident and capable, easily helping my clients to show their true selves for the camera. In this article, I’ll give you five easy-to-use ones for natural, emotion-filled images.

What Is Prompted Photography?

Prompted photography falls somewhere between posed and documentary photography, and full wedding day coverage often incorporates all three styles. When you make no input to what happens, you are documenting (e.g. the ceremony). When you tell your client how to position their body for the camera, you are posing (e.g. classic family portraits).

The goal is to photograph your clients interacting naturally, under your guidance. Different photographers use more or less prompted photograph strategies, and as you use these, you’ll find your sweet spot, depending on your style and the expectations of your clients.

How to Prepare to Use Prompts on the Wedding Day

Rapport is critical as a wedding photographer. You’re the one vendor who’ll be by their side all day. Make a persistent effort to help your clients relax in front of the camera and enjoy themselves for the photos, from the first meeting to the last moment of the wedding reception.

Start your planning with an in-depth discovery conversation. Be curious and delve deep to find what’s unique about their love story. Try questions such as:

• What makes you so excited to marry (Partner)?
• Tell me the most important thing I should know about you both?
• What do others love about (Partner)?
• Think of a photograph that means a lot to you. What do you value about that memory?

Ideally, you’ll leave your couple more in love with each other than ever—plus you’ll be armed with essential information about who they are and what photos are non-negotiable for their photography.

Next, block out a set for the romantic photo session. Extroverts might be happy to dive into active ones, but introverts will want to warm up first before they get crazy in front of your camera. Order them logically but be prepared to be flexible.

5 Easy Prompts Perfect for Wedding Day Romantic Photos

To get you started, here they are: five easy ones you can use in any wedding photo session.

Prompt 1: Pump Up the Energy

This is a great prompt for an exuberant couple giddy with the excitement of the ceremony. These ideas bring out the energy and big movement in a photograph, so lead by example with your enthusiasm! Have your camera ready to photograph moving targets (e.g. fast shutter, continuous focus camera mode), call out the instructions, and photograph away.

Pump up the energy by:

• Have them link arms and walk as if drunk, hold one another other up as they stumble home from the bar.
• Tell one to stand still, and the other silently sneak up from behind, and wrap them in a hug or a storm of tickles.
• Have one try to kiss the other, as they try their best to avoid being kissed.
• Instruct the groom to pick up the bride and piggyback her (help with dress if necessary) – and then have them swap, if the bride can hold him!

Prompt 2: Get Comedic

The goal here is to photograph the couple laughing, ideally at each other. Have them snuggle up for the camera: you want a constant connection with bodies and hands touching in your photos. For example:

• holding hands facing each other
• side by side
• arms wrapped around each other
• one leaning against the other

Make sure you change positions for each photograph as you work: don’t put the couple in a single pose and rattle off all of these. Use them one at a time (e.g. at different locations).

Get comedic by:

• Ask one to tell an embarrassing story about their partner and vice versa.
• Tell one: “In your sexiest voice, whisper into your partner’s ear as many animal names as you can think of.” They can also use breakfast cereals, household chores, etc.
• Have them stare into each other’s eyes and guess the body part the other is picturing.
• Direct one to deliver their best pickup line to the other, then swap and deliver their worst pickup line.
• Tell one to close their eyes. Have the other use their nose to draw something on their cheek. Then guess what they drew.
• Ask them to think of the most embarrassing moment in high school, especially if they didn’t go to high school together.
• Ask them to think of an animal and get the other to guess what you are… but you can only move your eyes and mouth—no sounds or hand gestures.
• Quickly describe a ludicrous scenario that you want them to act out: the bride’s an alien who’s just invaded Earth, and the groom’s been sent to make first contact and convince her not to destroy Earth. Shout “Ok, go! Go! Go!” at the end, and shoot as they panic and laugh.

Prompt 3: Imagination Land

Imagination Land is an emotive prompt to shift gears from high energy to an intimate mood, or vice versa. Use this prompt by calling out the first scenario, then make sure you call out the second, third, etc until you’ve transitioned to the mood you’re looking for your photograph.

Imagination scenarios:

• Ok, imagine that you’ve just won the lottery! You will never have to work again!
• You’re in your living room at home, relaxing with some Netflix, and (Bride) tells you she’s pregnant!
• Re-enact your proposal—but swap places! (I.e. whoever was proposed to, pretends to propose now.)
• You’ve arrived in Hawaii for day one of your honeymoon. It’s warm, a sultry breeze is blowing over the island and you have a Piña Colada in your hand. Let’s see that relaxation.
• You have just bought a new house together and you’re carrying (Partner) over the threshold: pick them up and spin around, then end with a kiss.
• It’s your ten-year wedding anniversary: you’re cuddled together on your couch before an open fire, steaming hot chocolate in hands, and an album of all your favorite memories together open on your laps. Feel that coziness and warmth.
• You’re having your first dance: have a practice now, while no one is watching.

Prompt 4: Let Out the Intimate

This works beautifully as a special moment together before rejoining the wedding guests. Use a transition (such as Imagination Land) to get your couple in the right headspace to share honestly for the photograph. Give each a question to think about for a few minutes before each photograph (e.g. as you change locations). Choose a question they didn’t address in their wedding vows (give the gift of insight into the other’s love).
When ready, ask them to cuddle face-to-face and share their answers. Put a long lens on your camera and let them know you’ll be shooting from a distance, so they can share privately.

Intimate questions:

• What do you love about (Partner’s) best characteristics?
• When were you most proud of (Partner)?
• How has (Partner) changed you?
• What are you most excited for in your life together?
• Why is (Partner) so important to you?
• What makes you most happy when you spend time together?

Prompt 5: Find the Unexpected

When time is short, this prompt helps spark creativity and add variety to your images in any setting. Take the shot that’s obvious, then look for what’s not.

Find the unexpected by:

• Find a reflection for your images: mirrors, windows, glass coffee tables, chrome, photo frames. Focus on the reflection (not the surface). Beware of dirty surfaces pulling focus!
• Take a fresh angle: lie on the floor with your camera and shoot up. Get up high and shoot down (get higher yourself or lie the couple on the ground). Do a 360o: circle the couple to change the light (e.g. back-lit silhouette, front-on light, etc).
• Use furniture opposite to its intention: sit on tables, lie on chairs, jump on beds.
• Put things in the way: shoot photos through things (rings, archways, hands in a heart shape leaves, grass, flowers, confetti, bubbles, prisms, fractal filters, stained glass windows). Shoot photos from under things (get under the veil with the couple, get under a blanket).
• Use creative depth of field: focus on hands, rings, shoes. Shoot a filmstrip sequence with focus on different objects or people. Focus on him watching her as she poses for the camera.

Managing competing priorities

Getting everything done during the romantic portrait session is achievable with planning. Here’s how to do just that.

Help your clients schedule their romantic portrait session

During pre-wedding meetings, help schedule the photo session within the wedding day so you all have the best chance of getting the dream images you want. One way to do this is to find the sunset on their wedding day, and block backward from there to the ceremony time:

• 3.00pm Ceremony
• 3.45pm Family formals
• 4.30pm Bridal party photos
• 5.00pm Romantic photos: sunset at 5.47pm
• 6.15pm Reception entry
• … and so on. Educate your couple on how much time you’ll need.

Make sure you’ve captured their non-negotiables

When shooting, allow enough time during the romantic photos to check (and re-check): “Ok, we’ve done X and Y. Did we forget anything? Are there any photos we haven’t done yet?”

Don’t let your stress become theirs

If the day unfolds differently to the schedule, try to remember: this is their first moment together as a married couple. You’re likely to face excitement, nerves, and eagerness to get to the reception, so help them enjoy this time together, even if it is fleeting.

Stick to the schedule

It’s important to end the romantic photos on time, even if you started late. The wedding schedule is used by the other vendors too: bar staff starting the tab, chefs delivering canapes, DJs starting their set. If you bring the couple back late (and I speak from experience here), you won’t be popular.

Adapt to the circumstances

Cope with light rain as best as you can. For heavy rain, I reshoot the following day. Hair and makeup are done now, and not likely repeatable to the same standard a day later, but sometimes it’s unavoidable.

Creative framing can help your images if you’re stuck in an icky location. Pick your angle to crop out ugly backgrounds, shoot tight, or use a fractal filter to screen out parts of the room.

If you completely run out of time, ask the bride and groom to give you half an hour for night photos after all the scheduled festivities. Prepare an emergency stash of light painting, long exposure, and flash photography ideas in advance.

Beyond the Wedding Day

Prompts are also a great technique for styled shoots, where you have vendor needs to address under tight timeframes. For inexperienced models, they give you a way to help them quickly build rapport with their on-camera partner so you can all achieve the goals of the shoot.

Another useful strategy is to practice using these prompted strategies with the couple before the wedding. During their engagement photo session, build a set of shortcut cues. For example, if the groom looks nervous and stiff, teach him to rag-doll dance (shake upper half of his body then relax). Then on the wedding day, all you need to call out is “Rag-doll dance!” to remind him.

Get Out There and Start Prompting

Ok, that’s it! You can grab my free checklist to easily plan your next prompted photoshoot. I hope this helps you lead your next romantic photo session with confidence, filled with ideas to create new art. I’d love to see what you create!

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Written by JEMMA POLLARI | Photographs by ICEFEATHERWIND PHOTOGRAPHY

Jemma is a photographer on the Sunshine Coast in Australia, where she photographs in between mothering her two little boys, writing, teaching and designing. She delivers free weekly photo prompts on her blog the Promptographer Guide. Come join the Promptographer tribe! 

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